The very basics: What is Professional Cuddling?

The simplest way to explain platonic professional cuddling is a safe and respectful space where a professional in the field is hugging and embracing a cuddling enthusiast via non-sexual physical touch. Additionally, the client can choose an activity where they will be close together such as watching tv or movies, laying down on the bed, sitting on the couch, etc. The professional is compensated for this time. Nevertheless, most people who have cuddled (with a professional or not) agree that it’s more than that. It’s not about the What, it’s about the Why. We answer the question Why do we cuddle? We cuddle to feel human, to be validated, to be heard, and to be spoiled by a caressing touch. We are telling stories to ourselves in our heads but sometimes when there’s another person listening, some of those stories change their tone and change the way we feel. That’s why we need to be heard.

Some people prefer to experience a non-judgmental zone, that’s why professional cuddling is a good option for them. When was the last time you cuddled? How did you feel?